Yesterday Terry Gross interviewed Eilene Zimmerman who just wrote the book, A Story of White-Collar Ambition, Addiction, And Tragedy about her ex-husband. As usual, the interview was captivating. At one point, Eilene mentioned the poet Marie Howe and her poem, “What The Living Do”written after her brother’s death. In her own interview on Fresh Air, Marie said, “As you know, as everybody knows, you think, ‘My life is changed so utterly I don’t know how to live it anymore.’ And then you find a way.” Still processing the death of my father after decades, the poem is right on.